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    #61
    Originally posted by spider View Post

    Love you, Brother.
    Don't let yourself get caught up in the "If onlys" No good comes from that
    Take a young person shooting.... Take 2 or more if you can...

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      #62
      Originally posted by NRATC53 View Post

      Don't let yourself get caught up in the "If onlys" No good comes from that
      It's hard to play that inner game.

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        #63
        Originally posted by spider View Post

        It's hard to play that inner game.
        It's not an inner game. But it is hard. NRATC53 is right. I have a feeling he's lived it.
        It will eat you up.
        Don't bottle it up. Don't repress it. Talk about it. Use your intellect over your emotion.
        I'm not saying it's easy. But going down that path will just make things worse.
        Tag line thanks to @Synner

        He’s like a walking “Tickle Me Angry” doll.

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          #64
          Originally posted by Aquabach View Post

          It's not an inner game. But it is hard. NRATC53 is right. I have a feeling he's lived it.
          It will eat you up.
          Don't bottle it up. Don't repress it. Talk about it. Use your intellect over your emotion.
          I'm not saying it's easy. But going down that path will just make things worse.
          That's the inner game! How do we process the loss and not eat ourselves up. Sometimes I get a little foggy brained from the adrenaline hangover.

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            #65
            Originally posted by Synner View Post

            I’m sorry you lost a potential sale but I’m glad they walked out. I hope they learned something from it.
            No idiots like that learn only to go to another shop! Real shame
            A .45acp says go away in any language ~ Clint Smith

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              #66
              Originally posted by spider View Post

              That's the inner game! How do we process the loss and not eat ourselves up. Sometimes I get a little foggy brained from the adrenaline hangover.
              You're foggy brained anyway.

              You have to grieve for the loss but not blame yourself for things beyond your control. You need to focus on the logic of that and fight the emotion.
              The parable of the two wolves raging inside each of us is a good example.

              You do know that story right?
              In case not, here it is. It's a good one.

              A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he says there are two wolves inside each of us which are always at battle.

              One is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery, and love.
              The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred, and fear.


              The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says,
              “Grandfather, which one wins?”


              The grandfather quietly replies, “The one you feed.”

              This is a fight between two different wolves in your brain.
              One is healthy grief and sorrow.
              The other is rotting guilt and self flagellation.
              The first is healing. The other is rot.
              The first can be used to help others as well as yourself.
              The other just causes more pain.

              Feed the right one
              Tag line thanks to @Synner

              He’s like a walking “Tickle Me Angry” doll.

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                #67
                Originally posted by Aquabach View Post

                It's not an inner game. But it is hard. NRATC53 is right. I have a feeling he's lived it.
                It will eat you up.
                Don't bottle it up. Don't repress it. Talk about it. Use your intellect over your emotion.
                I'm not saying it's easy. But going down that path will just make things worse.
                Yes I have..Too many times. .Still haunts my head from time to time- It sucks when you were unable to stop something in time. Hardest thing of all to deal with is having lived when you shouldn't have, and others should have but didn't. I've seen it get the best of people, leads to a bad place. Best thing you can do is talk about it to express your frustration. My phone's on, you know the number
                Take a young person shooting.... Take 2 or more if you can...

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                  #68
                  Originally posted by spider View Post

                  That's the inner game! How do we process the loss and not eat ourselves up. Sometimes I get a little foggy brained from the adrenaline hangover.
                  "Foggy brained"? as in your every day state? Yes, I'm back to being myself, but the phone's still on
                  Take a young person shooting.... Take 2 or more if you can...

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                    #69
                    Originally posted by Aquabach View Post

                    You're foggy brained anyway.

                    You have to grieve for the loss but not blame yourself for things beyond your control. You need to focus on the logic of that and fight the emotion.
                    The parable of the two wolves raging inside each of us is a good example.

                    You do know that story right?
                    In case not, here it is. It's a good one.

                    A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he says there are two wolves inside each of us which are always at battle.

                    One is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery, and love.
                    The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred, and fear.


                    The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says,
                    “Grandfather, which one wins?”


                    The grandfather quietly replies, “The one you feed.”

                    This is a fight between two different wolves in your brain.
                    One is healthy grief and sorrow.
                    The other is rotting guilt and self flagellation.
                    The first is healing. The other is rot.
                    The first can be used to help others as well as yourself.
                    The other just causes more pain.

                    Feed the right one
                    Yeah, that
                    Take a young person shooting.... Take 2 or more if you can...

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